Spicy Spectrum
An award-nominated, top 10% globally recognized podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male desire (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from intimacy experts to adult professionals, and together we explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
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Spicy Special: Sex Expert Leah Spasova on the Male Loneliness Epidemic, Modern Relationships, and the Role of Adult Entertainment
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, Psychologist and Sex and Relationships Expert Leah Spasova discusses the male loneliness epidemic and its broader implications for younger generations like millennials and Gen Z. Leah delves into the societal changes that have led to increased loneliness, the erosion of communities, and the impact of social media algorithms on gender relations. We're exploring how platforms profit from loneliness and insecurities and examine the effects of movements like the Red Pill (Also known as the "Manosphere") community. Leah offers insights into building healthier relationships and sexual lives, highlighting the importance of a positive and respectful approach to sexuality. The conversation also covers the use of adult entertainment sites and emphasizes the need for seeking professional help to address underlying sexual trauma and relationship issues.
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Part One: The History of American Masculinity Grifters
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Part Two: The History of American Masculinity Grifters
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