Spicy Spectrum
I’m Pepper Kat, host of Spicy Spectrum, an award-nominated podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the things most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, emotional needs, power, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes.
Whether you're part of the kink community, a curious listener, or a woman open to understanding male sexuality in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from experts to fellow creators, and together we challenge assumptions and explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an award-nominated fantasy fulfillment experience that reimagines personal connection.
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Spicy Special: Conquering Sexual Shame with Sandy Rose
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In this episode, sex therapist Sandy Rose delves into the topic of sexual shame, discussing its common sources such as body image, sexual dysfunction, and societal pressures. She highlights how shame manifests differently in men, notably surrounding performance and desire. Sandy emphasizes the role of societal standards and how they contribute to internalized shame. She also offers advice on overcoming sexual shame, the importance of open communication, and recognizing each person's unique sexual preferences. The conversation underscores the value of sex therapy in helping individuals explore their sexuality without guilt and addresses the broader implications of suppressing sexual desires, including potential risks. Sandy encourages embracing one’s sexuality and provides information on how to seek help through sex therapy.
Find Sandy online at:
Website: https://www.sandyrosetherapy.com/
Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sandy-rose-los-angeles-ca/1189565
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexytherapystuff/
🔥 Pre-Nominate Spicy Spectrum for Favorite Adult Podcast! 🔥
The 2026 AVN Awards pre-nominations are OPEN and I need your help to get Spicy Spectrum on the ballot.
👉 Voting is EASY:
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- Find the category: Favorite Adult Podcast
- Submission: Spicy Spectrum
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⏰ Deadline: Saturday, September 20th at 11:59 PM PT
Every vote counts! Let’s take Spicy Spectrum to the AVNs in Las Vegas on January 24, 2026.
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