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Spicy Special: Exploring Cuckolding & Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia de Vine

February 19, 2025 • Pepper Kat • Season 3 • Episode 80

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, Artemisia de Vine—a somatic sexologist, former sex worker, and former professional dominatrix—shares insights from her upcoming book, The Spirituality of Smut: The Surprising Wisdom of Sexual Fantasies. She explores how embracing sexual fantasies can be transformative, diving into the psychology behind fantasies like cuckolding and what they reveal about our emotional and psychological needs.

Artemisia also introduces her 'The deVinery Method,' which examines the connection between sexual fantasies, consciousness, and desire. Drawing from her extensive experience, she provides deep insights into the mechanisms of sexual arousal and fulfillment, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting one's fantasies for personal growth and societal change.

Learn more about her work and upcoming book at ArtemisiaDeVine.com

Substack: https://artemisiadevine.substack.com/

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