Spicy Spectrum
An award-nominated, top 10% globally recognized podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male desire (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from intimacy experts to adult professionals, and together we explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an award-nominated fantasy fulfillment experience that reimagines personal connection.
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Spicy Confessions: Belly Button Bob (Anonymous)
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Welcome to the first episode of Spicy Confessions, where I dive into the wild, quirky, and sometimes taboo confessions and fantasies shared by you, my listeners—anonymously, of course! In this debut episode, I’m introducing the concept of this new series where no topic is too spicy to explore.
The first confession comes from a listener I’m calling "Belly Button Bob," who shares his partner's unique fetish for his outie belly button and the self-consciousness he feels because of it. Bob’s letter details how his partner enjoys teasing, licking, and experimenting with his belly button in playful and intimate ways, but Bob is feeling sensitive about his body and wants advice on how to get more comfortable with it.
While I’m not a professional, I share some fun, light-hearted advice on how Bob can ease into this play, appreciate his sensitivity, and maybe even embrace his body’s unique features. The episode is all about open communication, exploring fantasies, and maintaining a fun, judgment-free atmosphere.
Got a spicy confession or fantasy of your own? I want to hear it! Email your anonymous confessions to thespicyspectrum@gmail.com or submit them via designyourdreamgirl.com. Who knows? Your story could be featured on the next episode!
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