
Spicy Spectrum
I’m Pepper Kat, host of Spicy Spectrum, an award-nominated podcast where I explore the complexities of sexuality, connection, and the inner world of male desire—especially through the unique perspective of an adult entertainer. From discussing sexuality and fantasy to addressing the deeper, often overlooked aspects of our hidden desires, I aim to open honest conversations that we all need but sometimes hesitate to have. With guests including experts and creators, we challenge misconceptions and explore what truly makes us human. I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an acclaimed fantasy fulfillment experience.
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Spicy Special: Exploring Safety, Sex, and Connection with Aubrey Aust
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In this Spicy Special, Aubrey Aust — a researcher, writer, and master's candidate at NYU — shares her insights into how we build safety, trust, and connection in intimate relationships. She explores the role of attachment theory, polyvagal theory, and neuroception in helping us feel truly secure with a partner. Aubrey also unpacks how attachment styles shape intimacy and why men's vulnerabilities around sexuality are often overlooked. Finally, she highlights the importance of care, ethics, and emotional safety in creating deeper, more fulfilling connections.
Learn more about Aubrey at aubreyaust.com
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