Spicy Spectrum

Spicy Special: 90 Day Fiance's Reba the Diva on Non-Monogamy

Pepper Kat Season 3 Episode 138

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In this sizzling Spicy Spectrum episode, I’m joined by the incomparable 90 Day Faince's Reba the Diva - a certified sexuality educator, intimacy coach, and fierce advocate for sex-positive living.

We unpack the real talk behind ethical non-monogamy: from managing jealousy and navigating the One Penis Policy, to setting powerful boundaries and practicing radical honesty. Reba shares insights from her work in the adult entertainment industry and offers practical advice for those exploring polyamory, swinging, or simply craving deeper connection.

🔥 Whether you’re poly-curious or just want better intimacy, this episode is for you!

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