Spicy Spectrum
An award-nominated podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male sexuality (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from experts to adult professionals, and together we challenge assumptions and explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an award-nominated fantasy fulfillment experience that reimagines personal connection.
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Spicy Special: Sex Gets Better with Age with Karen Bigman
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I’m joined by the unapologetically bold Karen Bigman, Certified Sex Educator, Menopause Coach, and host of Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50. We dive into how sexual desire evolves over time and why getting older doesn’t mean the end of great sex. In fact, it might be the beginning of the best sex of your life.
Karen opens up about discovering enhanced pleasure and confidence post-50, the power of communication, and why vibrators are tools, not taboo. We explore hormonal shifts, erectile dysfunction, desire discrepancies, and how to prioritize pleasure at every stage, regardless of age, gender, or relationship status.
Whether you’re 30, 50, or 70, this conversation is a reminder that shame has no place in the bedroom and that curiosity is forever sexy.
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