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An award-nominated podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male sexuality (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from experts to adult professionals, and together we challenge assumptions and explore what makes us human and what turns us on.

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What He’s Thinking: Why He’s Always Horny

September 07, 2025 • Pepper Kat • Season 3

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I’m exploring why men always seem horny, from what I’ve seen as an adult entertainer and from the honest conversations I’ve had with men behind the scenes. I talk about the role of biology, hormones, psychology, and even daily habits in shaping male desire.

It’s not always about addiction or emotional avoidance. Sometimes, it’s just a natural, persistent need they’re trying to manage. I also dive into outlets for stress relief and self-regulation, not just sexual gratification.

I believe men deserve a judgment-free space to express their fantasies. In this episode, I’m inviting women (and anyone interested) to rethink male sexuality through a more understanding lens, because not every urge needs to be acted on, but it does deserve to be heard.

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