Spicy Spectrum
An award-nominated podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male sexuality (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from experts to adult professionals, and together we challenge assumptions and explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an award-nominated fantasy fulfillment experience that reimagines personal connection.
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Mom Next Door, My Confession, and Fetishes No One Talks About
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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, I dive into the realities of male desire, exploring small penis fantasies, humiliation play, and cuckold desires, all through the lens of my experiences in the adult industry. I also share a personal confession about my own insecurities and caring too much about what others think. Plus, I sit down with Chelsea Buns, a mother and adult industry professional who goes by “the mom next door.” Chelsea shares her journey balancing a corporate job, motherhood, and a career in the adult industry, while breaking down misconceptions about mothers in the space. She emphasizes authenticity, celebrates average bodies, and opens up about consent, communication, and keeping relationships secure. This episode is packed with playful, emotional, and human insights you won’t hear anywhere else.
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